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Santa and Mrs. Claus Visit Sunshine Children’s Home

December 22, 2015 by Inside Press

Sunshine News:

Jay Lokhande, who lives at the Sunshine Children's Home, along with his family celebrating Christmas with Santa and Mrs. Claus.
Jay Lokhande, who lives at the Sunshine Children’s Home, along with his family celebrating Christmas with Santa and Mrs. Claus.

Ossining, NY–Santa and Mrs. Claus surprised the children at Sunshine with a police-escorted visit on their sleigh — thanks to the Police Columbia Association of Westchester, who also purchased individual toys specific to the special needs of each child. This organization has raised funds throughout the year for the past 15 years to bring this wonderful Christmas event to the Sunshine Children’s Home. We are grateful to them and offer our many thanks and best wishes to them for a Happy Holiday and a Happy New Year!

Donna Patane, Police Columbia Assoc. of Westchester, Gwen Vandross, Sunshine Children's Home, Ed Patane, Police Combia Assoc. of Westchester and Linda Mosiello, Sunshine Children's Home.
Donna Patane, Police Columbia Assoc. of Westchester, Gwen Vandross, Sunshine Children’s Home, Ed Patane, Police Combia Assoc. of Westchester and Linda Mosiello, Sunshine Children’s Home.

Filed Under: New Castle Releases Tagged With: celebration, Holidays, Inside Press, Santa Claus, Sunshine Children's Home, support, theinsidepress.com

Planned Parenthood: A Special Place for Excellent Care

December 2, 2015 by The Inside Press

Editor’s Note: Susan’s column was written a month prior to the recent shootings at a Planned Parenthood clinic in Colorado Springs and at Clinica Hispania, a woman’s health clinic in Houston, that have left four persons dead.

By Susan Chatzky

Susan Chatzky (right) and her daughter Maile Hamilton at a recent Planned Parenthood fundraiser.
Susan Chatzky (right) and her daughter Maile Hamilton at a recent Planned Parenthood fundraiser.

You may be blissfully unaware of the raging controversy surrounding Planned Parenthood right now. You may not even really know what Planned Parenthood does, or where the nearest one is. Planned Parenthood may be completely off your radar, and that’s totally understandable.

Here in Chappaqua and many of the surrounding towns and villages, most people can afford excellent health insurance, there’s no need to go to a health center that accepts Medicaid or that has a sliding scale fee structure. If you have teenage kids you have most likely talked to them about sex, STDs, birth control, and personal responsibility. You may even have taken your daughter to your own OB/GYN.

We live in an amazing community where most of the people who live here do so because it’s such a great place to raise kids. Raising my own children here was an incredible privilege. The schools are great, the other parents are all dedicated, many parents volunteer. It’s a wonderful place to raise a family. So even though I really couldn’t afford it, that is exactly what I chose to do.

I raised two kids in the Chappaqua School District as a single mom with a low paying job. I was a personal trainer, which had really flexible hours, but the pay is pretty terrible (the trainer you pay $100 dollars an hour for probably sees $35 of that, and that’s before taxes), I had zero benefits, no health insurance, no vacation, no sick pay. I probably should have moved, but I wanted my children to have all of the advantages of going to such excellent schools.

It’s not easy to be poor in a wealthy neighborhood. My kids didn’t have the same clothes, vacations, or camp experiences. Our house was a tiny little rental. We ate a lot of pasta. It was a struggle, and it was humiliating. It is humiliating and degrading and soul crushing to be poor. To know you don’t belong somewhere. I’m sure it was hard for my kids.

While my kids had health insurance, I did not. There was no ACA, and I didn’t qualify for Medicaid. I did however need healthcare. I’m a mom; it’s my responsibility to stay healthy. I went to Planned Parenthood. Unlike private practices, they took me without health insurance, they charged on a sliding scale, and no one even blinked when a poor, single, mother of two had the nerve to want birth control. No one judged me, or made me feel like I was less than a person. No one made me feel bad for having a sex life.

Recently, someone from Chappaqua wrote on Facebook that women could just go someplace else for care. It actually brought me to tears. There is something special about Planned Parenthood that can’t just be replaced. It is a place you can go and receive excellent care without anyone judging you. It is a place where teenagers can go to ask questions about their bodies and get real answers.

It is a place where someone will hold your hand if they are giving you bad news after a PAP smear. It is a place that will take you, and help you, and care for you no matter your ability to pay them. And yes, it is a place that will help you if you find yourself pregnant unexpectedly. I’m married now, and I have health insurance. I finally “belong” in my own community. But there are other women who, like I did, struggle. They sit next to you at parent teacher conferences, are on line behind you at Walgreens, they volunteer for PTA events, and they live here because they want their kids to have a good foundation and to have better opportunities than they had themselves.

Planned Parenthood is here for them, so I will always be here for Planned Parenthood.

Susan Chatzky is a mom, step mom, wife, blogger, and sometime yoga teacher. She rescues dogs and sits on the board of directors for Planned Parenthood Hudson Peconic. For more info, please visit www.pphp.org.

Filed Under: Et Cetera Tagged With: healthcare, Inside Press, Planned Parenthood, support, theinsidepress.com

Ossining’s Hidden Gem Offerings, Opportunities and the Expansion of Sunshine Children’s Home

October 21, 2015 by The Inside Press

Rendering

By Matt Smith

Are you looking to do some good and give back to the community? Want to help out in an area steeped in nature and off the beaten path? Willing to provide aid and comfort for a variety of sick kids who are looking for playtime with someone just like you? Only a short drive on the Taconic State Parkway, just beyond the entrance to Cedar Lane, tucked away on a hill and nestled among the trees, you’ll find your answer. Referred to affectionately by various staff members as “Ossining’s Hidden Gem,” Sunshine Children’s Home and Rehabilitation Center provides 24-hour treatment for medically complex children, newborn-age 18, who require that long-term residential care.

Originally opened as St. Mary’s Rehabilitation Center for Children, the venue was bought by current owner Ari Friedman in September 2009, who rechristened it with its current name. And it is truly a home in the fullest sense of the word.

“We don’t look anything like a hospital, we don’t want to look anything like a hospital,” says Administrator and Director Linda Mosiello, who states that the goal of the organization is to keep each resident happy, and with a smile on their face. “Some of [these kids] have life-limiting diagnoses. So, the idea is to create quality for their time of life, however long that may be.”

And they do that by normalizing the environment in the best way they can. “We create a typical day in the life of a child,” continues Mosiello, citing that all the kids are in school programs as soon as the day begins. Operated in conjunction with Northern Westchester BOCES–with which Sunshine has held a partnership since 2011–these programs are offered on three levels: Elementary, Middle School, and High School. Additionally, Sunshine runs a preschool program (in a separate building) for their younger residents.

Each program uses a combination of special education professionals and teaching staff, as well as occupational therapists and speech pathologists. Other therapists and nurses are always available on-site, and may sometimes sit in on classes, if needed, for easy access to residents. But, other than that, it’s “normalcy as best we can do it, despite their complexities,” explains Mosiello. “Kids at home don’t sit around all day in beds, [and] our kids don’t either.”

Linda Mosiello
Linda Mosiello

But, the good news is that when the kids are in bed, they’re in a room custom-decorated just for them. Comments Mosiello, “[The room] really is their space. We make the improvements that would bring a bit more whimsy to their day.” With three beds to a room, residents are divided into three wings: Saplings, Willow, and Cedar–“you can tell I’m into trees,” Mosiello says with a laugh–and, for the most part, boys are housed with boys (in Cedar) and girls are housed with girls (in Willow). The exceptions? Toddlers (housed in Saplings) and siblings live together, regardless of gender; the former, because of their young age; the latter, to keep that familial bond. (Of note, Sunshine currently has five sets of siblings in their facility).

Mosiello also stresses, on the subject of making the space feel like a home, the importance of keeping the patients’ families involved in their child’s daily activities. “This is their home, too,” she continues, explaining that all families have unrestricted visiting hours. “[Parents] do enjoy coming in and watching their child during their school day. It’s very comforting for them to see [the child] in such a typical routine.”

Furthermore, she recognizes the need for a family to know their child is safe, and acknowledges the impact that Sunshine, as a place of comfort, may have on an entire family. “These parents have been very traumatized by what has happened [in terms of their child’s diagnosis,” she says. “Our goal is to create a seamless transition for the families [into our facility]. This place [is] not just for the child. It is for the family to heal.”

And that “healing place” will hopefully get bigger soon, as Sunshine is planning to expand their facility. The venue has proposed construction of a new building on site, which would add approximately 127,000 square feet to their current 19,000 square-foot property. The expansion would also create an additional 68 beds within the facility, allowing capacity to increase from 54 kids to 122.

IMG_5432“We desperately need this space in order to improve the quality of care and living for our children and to make room for the overwhelming number of children who need to be here,” says Mosiello. “We have a long waiting list right now, and in addition to that waiting list, there are kids out there every day struggling to survive. I’m looking forward to being able to meet the needs of these families who are waiting.”

The expansion would also relieve many staff members of various space constraints. For one, as of this writing, the elementary school program is held in the day room (where playtime is held), and nurses and doctors have makeshift offices in storage closets. “When you have no space, you get creative with how to use [what you have],” comments Mosiello.

She notes, on that subject, that the close proximity of the staff members has created a significant eternal bond between them. “We’ve created a community here, and we’re so small, that it’s really very beautiful. All of our staff, from housekeeping to physicians….[are] a family here.”

Volunteer Opportunities at Sunshine

On that note, if you’d like to do your part and “commit to these kids” as well, Sunshine has an array of various volunteer opportunities, all available to members of the local community.  “We work with [everyone] young to old for our volunteer program,” says Mosiello. “That’s what our kids love.”

“We have lovely student programs,” explains Director of Social Work Susan Pinckney. “[Sunshine] works with juniors and seniors from local high schools, including Fordham Prep, Hackley, and schools in Ossining and Croton, who come to do their [required] senior community service hours.” Pinckney notes these students work mainly in the Therapeutic Play program, which focuses on creating leisure-type activities for the children. Additionally, college students come in for social work internships, or to shadow a nurse or therapist.

“And then we have our Community Moms and retirees,” Pinckney continues. “[They] come in to be part of our Cuddle Club and [volunteer to] rock a baby, or to get down on a mat and play with a child.”

The Town of New Castle’s Chappaqua Cares organization led by Dawn Greenberg and Jessica Reinmann, for example, are welcomed volunteers at Sunshine. This group of New Castle community volunteers helped plant garden beds in the Sunshine gardens and also created gift bags for a “moms’ retreat” that Sunshine held as a special bonding day for the mothers of the children who live at Sunshine.

“We’re an opportunity for education and professional service in that way,” states Mosiello. “And I hear all the time that they always get more [back] than they think they’re giving.”

Additional volunteer opportunities include the Friendly Visitor program, wherein volunteers can come in once a week for a scheduled, one-to-one play session with a resident; or a Special Events volunteer, wherein students assist and/or accompany staff members and children on various off-site trips, special events, or the occasional birthday celebration. Of note, the girls of Sunshine have been giving back to the community themselves: Sunshine recently formed their own Girl Scout Troop, within the Ossining Girl Scouts.

IMG_5434The high-spirited energy at Sunshine resonates with its supporters. Mosiello notes that Friedman, who has invested millions of dollars of his own money to fund Sunshine’s overall operation, has two critically ill children himself. She states: “He understands what that’s like. He sees it through the eyes of these parents.” For better or worse, perhaps that’s why the facility works so well, as Friedman can relate firsthand to “parents [who] have had their entire world rocked when their baby arrives early [or suffers traumatic brain injury]. The goal is to create a seamless transition for the families,” focusing on peace, serenity and healing in a time of crisis. For this reason, and to aid in this transition, Friedman and Mosiello made sure their oasis was encompassed in natural refuges.

Two favorites of Mosiello’s include a pond, located just outside the main building, and a porch, built in 2013, just off one of the classrooms, both installed to instill the feeling of home for their inhabitants. “[Families] can take a walk, relax, and feel like they’re in a park,” says Mosiello. Additionally, she states these outside spaces allow the kids to enjoy a full sensory experience. “They love to feel the wind and the air, and listen to the [water from the] fountains.”

“It’s this kind of aesthetic that speaks to the commitment of the ownership of this organization,” adds Mosiello. Again, she reiterates: “It was to create something of beauty. It’s not a business. It’s a home.” And, due to the hard work and dedication of Friedman, Mosiello, Pinckney, and the tireless staff of teachers, doctors, physicians, therapists, and nurses, it’s undoubtedly, and aptly, a home filled with Sunshine…each and every day.

Sunshine Children’s Home is located at 15 Spring Valley Road in Ossining. For more information, please visit www.sunshinechildrenshome.org.

Matt Smith, a proud graduate of Skidmore College, is a regular contributor to The Inside Press, Inc.

Filed Under: Sponsor News! Tagged With: children, community, Inside Press, Sunshine Children's Home, support, theinsidepress.com

Homegrown Heroes

October 21, 2015 by The Inside Press

The definitions of a hero according to Merriam-Webster are: “A person admired for his/her achievements” and “One who shows great courage.” Inside New Castle, we indeed have heroes among us. Some were born and raised in town, many are on active duty, several are veterans. These men and women are family, friends, neighbors. More importantly, they are people of great courage, sacrificing their comfort and safety for the safety and security of our country, and protecting the freedom that we have come to learn is not free. While by no means an all-inclusive list, the following profiles of six young men and one woman are a great point of departure. We take great pride in sharing their stories in these pages…

By Eileen Gallagher

Thomas Galvin
Thomas Galvin

Thomas Galvin, HGHS 2011

Galvin recently graduated from the Air Force Academy, and is on his way to pilot school.

His inspiration? “I don’t think I can attribute it to any one thing. I guess I’ve just never stopped thinking airplanes were cool. Seeing the Blue Angels at Jones Beach when I was young I thought, ‘that looks awesome, I want to do that.’ But as far as being in the Air Force, that’s probably just luck. I applied never thinking I’d get in, but I somehow did. Now I’m on my way to starting pilot training.” Galvin’s paternal grandfather served in the Army, and, but for vision issues, his father would have become a pilot with the Marines.

Family’s reaction? Galvin’s mother, Kathy, a Chappaqua resident, remembers learning about her son’s decision. “It seemed that the process was looking favorable. He asked me how I felt about it, and at that exact moment I remember thinking it was my worst nightmare and at that same moment thinking it was my greatest dream for him! The Academy teaches, ‘Integrity first, Service before self, and Excellence in all we do’. I could not think of a better set of values to be taught!” Galvin’s father, also named Tom, said, “We are so proud and happy for him as it’s a dream come true. Ever since he was seven he wanted to fly for the Air Force. He has always been community-minded having logged in record hours at Chappaqua Volunteer Ambulance, being an officer at Civil Air Patrol, and serving the Church of St. John and St. Mary as an altar server and on Midnight Runs.”

Community support? “My parents are the biggest reason I’ve made it to pilot training, but I wouldn’t have gotten to where I am today without the help of a lot of people in the community. Between tutors, personal trainers and community leaders, they’re people I still keep in touch with and visit whenever I can, despite the Air Force taking me far from Chappaqua. My friends and family are an essential part of my support network, they definitely keep me sane, and are always there for me.”

Path going forward? “After I complete Initial Flight Training, I’ll begin a year-long Undergraduate Pilot Training. The first phase is one month of academics. In Phase 2, I’ll begin flying a small training aircraft. About halfway through is Phase 3; I will track into the training aircraft for fighter and bomber pilots, the trainer for cargo pilots or the trainer for helicopters. After I complete training in one of those aircrafts, I’ll learn which airplane I’ll fly for the next ten years. At some point over the next two years, I’ll also need to complete Survival, Evasion, Resistance, and Escape Training as well as a water survival class.”

Advice for others interested? “The Air Force Academy looks for well-rounded, service-oriented people. My extracurriculars and volunteer service made me competitive, and getting involved with Civil Air Patrol also gave me an advantage. ROTC is a great opportunity to get a commission. My advice is, even if you’re only the slightest bit interested, give it a shot.” Galvin’s dad added, “Entering the Air Force is hard enough, but staying in is even harder. In Thomas’ year, 55,000 students expressed an interest in attending, 12,000 were invited to apply, 1200 were accepted, and only 800 graduated. It’s that tough.”

Ariel Coreth
Ariel Coreth

Ariel Coreth, HGHS 2009

Coreth is a Naval DIVO (Division Officer) who manages a group of over 50 sailors. Deployed for six months over a year ago, she was flown to Hong Kong to meet her ship, sailed south, and “parked” in the Red Sea in support of Operation Inherent Resolve; a mission to be on standby for evacuating the Yemeni Embassy, if needed.

Her inspiration? Her brother Ian. As a high school freshman, she accompanied her father to visit him at the Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland. “Observing formation, observing people hard at work studying, people walking around in crisp white uniforms, and how excited and happy my brother was, it basically got me thinking, okay, what is this place about?” Coreth explained. She further shared that she did her research and felt she came to understand what to expect,”It’s regimented…there are rules. It’s more of a disciplined path for me to take. I met people who were so happy and felt so accomplished. There was just that innate drive in them, that dogged determination that sometimes you don’t find nowadays.”

Women in the military? “Things are changing. The Navy is approaching the 25% mark, and we do have the first four star Admiral. There were recently two (female) West Point graduates: a Second Lieutenant and a Captain who graduated ranger school.” Coreth pointed out other successful women in the service spotlight, specifically noting both Condoleeza Rice and Sonya Sotomayor and saying, “I’ve seen successful men and women. I’ve also seen men screw up and women screw up. (Ultimately) it’s all the same…it’s about giving back, but also about the highest echelon, the highest caliber of service. I love my country, and this is the way I want to serve my country.”

Ben Berkey, second from left, during Formal Parade outside of Bancroft Hall, United States Naval Academy
Ben Berkey, second from left, during Formal Parade outside of Bancroft Hall, United States Naval Academy

Advice for any interested students? “Chappaqua schools did a wonderful job in molding a very independent mind. Follow the beat of your own drum. Trust your gut and be open
and receptive to new things.”

Max Hamlin
Max Hamlin

Max Hamlin, HGHS 2007

Inspiration? “Both of my grandfathers served in World War II, but one was only a kid,” began Hamlin, describing how Bernie Goodkin, his maternal grandfather was 17 years old when he enlisted. He served on the S.S. Leopoldville, a Belgian passenger liner that was converted to a transport for soldiers. On December 24th, 1944, Goodkin was in his quarters below deck when, by happenstance, one of his fellow infantrymen gave his head a mischievous smack. A chase ensued, with both men ending up on the upper deck, neither knowing that a torpedo launched from a German submarine was about to strike.

“My grandfather was pulled out of the water,” continued Hamlin. Had Goodkin still been in the lower level, he would have perished with the more than 760 soldiers who died in what has come to be known as The Leopold Disaster. “Years later, he still got letters from other family members of those on that ship asking if he knew of anyone else surviving.”

Was Goodkin the inspiration for Hamlin to join the Army? Perhaps in part. “I always looked up to my grandfather–I wanted to emulate him.” Was 9/11 a factor? “I was a 7th grader during 9/11, and scared we would be in a war.” Hamlin pointed out the irony that, at 22 years of age, he was getting on a plane to serve in that very war he had feared. “I would have served regardless,” Hamlin said. “Growing up here, I felt like I had a debt, something to give back.” He served on the Pleasantville Ambulance Corps during high school, and was in ROTC while in college. “I loved being part of a team, doing something exciting,” Hamlin said. A self-proclaimed “adrenalin junkie”, he wanted adventure, and found it in the Army. Commissioned in 2011, he spent the following year in Fort Campbell, Kentucky with the 101st Airborne Division (think TV series Band of Brothers). He was deployed to Afghanistan in the Nangarhar Province in one of the last big deployments from November 2012 to August 2013.

Just as meaningful to Hamlin is his deep appreciation for everything he has here in our country. He spoke of the civilians in Afghanistan working to feed their families while having to navigate roadside explosives, and observed, “You don’t understand how much you’ve been given until you see people who don’t have it. You learn to appreciate food and sleep, how nice it is to drive to school in safety. Basic necessities become treasured moments.” Even something as basic as a letter in the mail becomes ‘one of those things’.

Would he make the same choice again? Hamlin recalled that the last thing he did before he left for the Army was watch the Jets lose with his dad. And though his mother did not want him to join in the beginning, she was very proud as she came to see her son off. He conceded that the Army is not for everyone, “It’s a very big commitment. It’s hard to leave your family, your familiar town, hard to adjust to moving to an area where you don’t want to live. But it’s worth it as you get to meet people from all 50 states, and see some of the world. You learn how to make a new family. By the time you leave a base, you have made 20 new friends.” After a beat, he was unequivocal, “I would do it again.”

The single most important thing to come out of his experience was the opportunity to serve as an officer and lead soldiers. “Being honored with the responsibility of leading our nation’s sons and daughters is by far my greatest achievement. At 23 years old, I was leading 25 soldiers, and at 24, I was second in command of 180 troops. That’s not something I ever thought would happen as a small town kid from Chappaqua!” Hamlin concluded, “My service and my time in Afghanistan are just steps in my life’s journey, but the privilege of leadership in such a storied organization is what I am most proud of.”

David Levine
David Levine

David Levine, HGHS 2003

Army Medic Levine lives with his wife and two children in Virginia. He received his Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) certification at 18, and, after two years of study at Suffolk University in Boston, he joined the Army.

Inspiration to serve? Levine recalled, “I was born in Bogota, Colombia, and was raised primarily in the streets in various foster homes and orphanages. I was adopted in 1991 at the age of 6, along with my brother Leonard, and was very fortunate to be saved from the life I had. I have always had a sense of obligation to repay my parents for the life that they allowed me to have–the Army was always something I felt I needed to do.”

Levine explained how he learned of his late brother Lawrence’s service with the Chappaqua Volunteer Ambulance Corps (CVAC). “When I was 7 years old, I found his bright yellow jacket in one of our closets. It belonged to my brother Lawrence who had died before we were adopted. (Lawrence was adopted at birth from Colombia.)  At 17, he passed away in an accident on a school trip in Europe. He was an avid volunteer at the Ambulance Corps, and I later learned there is a tree dedicated in his honor outside the CVAC station.” After his parents explained Lawrence’s role as an EMT, Levine was immediately interested. “At the time, I really just thought the lights, sirens and jackets were cool, but once I started, it solidified what I wanted to do in my life.”

He continued, “Military recruiters never came to Chappaqua, so I sought them out and told them there was no way I would sign up unless I was a Medic. My main goal was to help soldiers in a time of war. I wanted the trauma, I wanted the action; and I appreciated the feeling of being needed at one’s most vulnerable moments, knowing I was the one who could help. I was never very patriotic. In fact, growing up, I took more pride in being Colombian only because I didn’t want to lose that part of me. But once I joined, it was instantaneous. I was a part of something much bigger than myself or my desires.”

Helicopter Medevac training at Fort Campbell, Kentucky
Helicopter Medevac training at Fort Campbell, Kentucky

Family’s reaction? Despite his dad having served from 1958-1960, Levine felt his decision was “very new to all of them.” That being said, his “family slowly came around to accepting” his decision and became his biggest supporters. “I was finally able to make them proud, and achieve things I never thought I could,” he said.

Advice? Levine encourages high school students to “make sure it is something you really want to do. You have to love what you do, because it is not easy. The physical and mental demands that the Army requires is unlike anything most will experience. Even the most competitive athlete, or the best student, will have some sort of significant lifestyle change.”

Future Plans? “I’m still a Medic, but work in a clinic, which is a long way from the front lines. After 32 months in the Middle East, between Afghanistan twice, and a short tour at Kuwait /Iraq border, this is a nice change of pace. I intend to stay in the service until I retire, well past my 20 years. I hope to become an officer in the Army, but stay in the medical field either as a Nurse, or a Physician’s Assistant.”

Levine summed up his thoughts on serving in the military; “All of the benefits are at your disposal as long as you keep in mind what you really signed up for. You took an oath to defend the people of the United States from all enemies foreign and domestic. That seems like just words, but understand that you are a Soldier, Marine, Airmen or Seaman 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Regardless of what you are wearing, you represent the United States. Once you are called to fight, you have a very valuable position. It’s not always about God and country, and, in most cases, that may be the last thing on your mind. But it is taking care of yourself, and also of those around you so your mission is completed and you all come home.”

Ben Berkey
Ben Berkey

Ben Berkey, HGHS 2010

Berkey excelled in school, both in the classroom and on the playing fields. He was one of two recipients of the Torrey D. Dodson award for Male Scholar Athlete of the year, active on the student council and a co-captain of the football team. A willingness and ability to lead played a part in his decision to serve, and Berkey went directly from Greeley to the United States Naval Academy, graduating in 2014 with a Bachelor of Science in Systems Engineering and is currently in the submarine training pipeline.

Inspiration? The 9/11 attack tremendously impacted Berkey. His uncle, Douglas Irgang, worked in the South Tower, and was killed at the age of 32. Football coach Bill Tribou was also an inspirational figure; having served in the Marine Corps, Tribou recognized Berkey’s qualities and his potential, and put forward the idea of serving. Tribou said of Berkey, “Ben is a product of an outstanding upbringing. His parents created an environment for their children that was loving, caring and, at the same time, task oriented. Ben is a very special young man, a very rare individual. His first and foremost quality is his compassion and care for everybody else! I have never known him to be irresponsible, or put his own needs before others. His passion and attention to detail is incalculable!”

In 2010, just before graduating, Berkey gave a speech at the Memorial Day dedication of the Route 120 bridge to Staff Sergeant Kyu Hyuk Chay, who lost his life in service to our country. Though Berkey did not personally know Chay, the parade marshall at the time, Lt. Col. Bob Coulombe, knew Berkey and thought he was the right choice for the moving memorial ceremony. An excerpt from the end of his speech: “My desire to attend the United States Naval Academy began when I watched the Twin Towers fall, carrying my uncle to his grave and threatening all Americans’ safety. I have to believe that my uncle’s death, along with the other 3,000 innocent victims who perished that day, serves to remind me how very fragile freedom is. The events of 9/11 magnified my patriotism and inspired me to protect this country.”

David Levine (L) spares a moment for some “operative” fun in Afghanastan
David Levine (L) spares a moment for some “operative” fun in Afghanastan

Future plans? In his third year at the Academy, Berkey became a submarine officer, drawn to the people and “the most advanced technology in the military.” His contract is for five years of service; sometime in August of 2016 he will learn the location of his submarine assignment. In the meantime, Berkey is engaged to be married to his HGHS sweetheart, Christine Haggerty, whose parents, like his own, are residents of Chappaqua.

Ted Kenyon
Ted Kenyon

Ted Kenyon, HGHS 2007

Ted Kenyon’s last official day in the Army fast approaches. Deployed for one year to Jordan, he also served two three-week overseas assignments in the United Arab Emirates and South Korea, respectively. He recently finished his time as Platoon Leader for 41 months, well above the average one year assignment.

Inspiration? Although both of his grandfathers served in the Navy, Kenyon drew enlistment inspiration elsewhere. Like several of his peers, he pointed to 9/11 as one factor leading to his decision. “At the end of the day, I didn’t have a good excuse not to,” said Kenyon. He believes “everyone has a duty to serve their community in some capacity, and if you are physically and mentally capable to serve, you should.”

Family reaction? Kenyon’s family’s initial reaction was one of disbelief. His parents, Mark and Ann, attributed his interest in joining Reserve Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC) at Wake Forest University to the “tough talk of a teenager.”

Ann recalled advising him, “Let’s not make a commitment right now. Go to Wake, join a fraternity, see how things play out.” Deep down, she knew her son was greatly affected by the attacks on the World Trade Center; she worked across the street from the Trade Center, but was away on business in the days leading up to that tragic day. Original plans called for a red-eye back to New York the night of September 10th.

She never took that flight, but her children didn’t know that and feared the worst. Kenyon would later tell her, “If I don’t defend our country, who else will?” With their son’s graduation in 2011, Ann and Mark’s feelings evolved into great pride combined with genuine concern. “I wouldn’t wish this on any mother’s child, but I need to be respectful–respectful for the sacrifice,” shared Ann, who also mentioned that Skyping and texting provide some measure of comfort.

For his mother’s birthday this year, Kenyon presented Ann with his framed separation orders, for which she was very grateful.

Plans going forward? While deployed, Kenyon would get up at 1 a.m. Jordanian time to take online courses out of the University of Maryland. Beginning January 2016, he will attend graduate school at Georgetown University for Security Policy Studies as part of their International Relations program, and plans to stay in government service.

Considering a similar path? “We’ve been given a leg up more than most people,” Kenyon said of growing up in Chappaqua. But he pointed out that serving in the military is one of the “great equalizers” where you are rewarded and promoted based on merit alone, regardless of your socioeconomic background. “You earn your own way.”

He further advised about life’s critical skills: “Do your homework–reach out and ask questions. Read voraciously about the conflicts that are going on throughout the world. Make a difference–be a leader.” Kenyon’s final advice comes in the form of a quote by Teddy Roosevelt, one that helped inform his decision to join, “If I must choose between righteousness and peace, I choose righteousness.”

There are many more stories not yet told. Please feel free to contact us if you would like to share a service experience for inclusion in the online version of Inside Chappaqua.

And if you are moved to express your gratitude and appreciation for all that our military men and women do for us, please consider joining an organization such as Soldiersangels.org.

Eileen Gallagher is a Chappaqua resident, wife, mother of two sons, daughter of a Navy veteran, and a great supporter of our military. A member of Soldiers’ Angels for over three years, she currently volunteers with veterans at the Montrose VA and sends over 100 letters a year to troops serving overseas. 

Filed Under: Cover Stories Tagged With: Chappaqua, community, heroes, Inside Press, protection, service, support, theinsidepress.com

315 Supporters Laced Up to Run Miles for Miles

June 2, 2015 by The Inside Press

Team Daniel Runs for Recovery from Mental Illness
By Janine Crowley Haynes

The Laitman family with marathon great, Bill Rodgers & Shari Applebaum, Miles Applebaum's mother (From left) Abbey Laitman, Hannah Laitman, Rachel Laitman, Rob Laitman, Bill Rodgers, Shari Applebaum, Daniel Laitman, Ann Laitman
The Laitman family with marathon great, Bill Rodgers & Shari Applebaum, Miles Applebaum’s mother (From left) Abbey Laitman, Hannah Laitman, Rachel Laitman, Rob Laitman, Bill Rodgers, Shari Applebaum, Daniel Laitman, Ann Laitman

Last Sunday in Armonk, nonprofit organization, Team Daniel, held a 5K fundraising event, Miles for Miles, at Byram Hills High School in memory of Miles Applebaum, 21, who was lost to suicide last October. The high school was a fitting venue. “There’s no better place to hold an event in memory of my son,” says Shari Applebaum. Miles Applebaum attended Byram Hills High School and was a cross-country runner who ran the course behind the high school many times over. When approached with the idea of holding the event at the high school, Principal Chris Borsari quickly mobilized support from the Student Wellness Advisory Committee (SWAC), teachers, students, community volunteers, friends, and family. “Everyone came out to make a difference,” says Shari Applebaum who is truly grateful for the overwhelming love and support from the Armonk and surrounding communities.

Bill Rodgers signs copies of his book, Marathon Man
Bill Rodgers signs copies of his book, Marathon Man

Dr. Rob Laitman, Bedford resident and co-founder of Team Daniel, opened with introductions. Tables were set up for mental health representatives from NAMI of Westchester, Brain & Behavior Research Foundation, and American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.* Singers Bianca and Jacqueline Muniz sang an emotional rendition of Hallelujah. Bianca Muniz and Miles Applebaum met at Lagond Music School and quickly became close friends. Lagond’s band, County All Stars, played for the close to 400 supporters in attendance, with 315 of them lacing up to hit the cross-country trail as well as the track. Running alongside them was four-time winner of the Boston and New York City marathons, Bill Rodgers, who later signed copies of his book, Marathon Man, for his enthusiastic fans. In his 40 years of running, Rodgers participated in approximately 1,500 races–all for different causes. Rodgers noted, however, Miles for Miles was his first run for mental health.

Daniel Laitman of Team Daniel (on left) runs regularly as part of his mental health regimen after being diagnosed with schizophrenia.
Daniel Laitman of Team Daniel (on left) runs regularly
as part of his mental health regimen after being
diagnosed with schizophrenia.

Given that Dr. Laitman is a runner as well and has run in 68 marathons, it’s no surprise his fundraising events focus on running. He likens the cross-country terrain at Byram Hills High School with its sometimes rocky twists and turns to the long, rough road back to recovery from mental illness. “It’s hard, but you can’t give up. You have to run the course. You have to do the work,” says Dr. Laitman. Raising awareness to help dismantle the stigma surrounding mental health issues is an important undertaking for the Laitman family. Their son, Daniel Laitman, was diagnosed with schizophrenia at age 15. Over the years, the family has raised between $150,000 to $200,000 for various mental health organizations. In 2014, Rob and Ann Laitman officially formed their nonprofit organization, Team Daniel Running for Recovery from Mental Illness, and have held four 5Ks, including Miles for Miles where they raised $17,000. “We have a long way to go to reach our goals, but slow and steady wins the race,” says Ann Laitman.

After the long battle to stabilize their son on the right medication, it became abundantly clear to the Laitmans that their main goals were for “Daniel to have a robust recovery and lead a full life.” No doubt, the Laitmans have realized their goals. Daniel Laitman, now 24, recently graduated from SUNY Purchase with a 3.41 GPA. He majored in screenwriting and playwriting and is currently pursuing his passion for stand-up comedy. “Robust recovery should be the norm, not the exception, for those struggling with mental health challenges,” states Rob Laitman.

It’s interesting to note that Ann Laitman is a general internist and Rob Laitman is a general internist, nephrologist, and gerontologist, but after their son developed schizophrenia, Rob Laitman read voraciously and has expanded his medical practice to include psychiatric internal medicine. Over the past six years, Rob Laitman has become expert in the medical management of clozapine. On their website, Rob Laitman writes passionately about seeing the person/patient as a whole, even when it comes to mental health challenges. The Laitmans found that along with internal medicine, integrating behavioral health (regular exercise, healthy diet, etc.) was an important component that factored into their son’s mental health equation. To read more about the Laitmans and Team Daniel, please visit their website, teamdanielrunningforrecovery.org.

Janine Crowley Haynes of Chappaqua is a freelance writer & author of My Kind of Crazy: Living in a Bipolar World.

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* Mental health organizations present at Miles for Miles:

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention www.afsp.org, AFSP funds research, creates educational programs, advocates for public policy, and support survivors of suicide loss.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK (8255)) suicidepreventionlifeline.org provides free, confidential support to individuals and/or family members in crisis or emotional distress. Lifeline provides a list of warning signs for someone at risk for suicide. However, if somone is in immediate danger of attempting suicide, call 911.

NAMI of Westchester namiwestchester.org, whose latest mental health initiative involves setting up programs in middle schools and high schools throughout Westchester County.

Brain & Behavior Research Foundation bbrfoundation.org raises funds for research and awards grants to leading scientists around the world. 100 percent of funds raised for research are invested in grants leading to advances and breakthoughs in brain and behavior research.

Filed Under: North Castle News Tagged With: 5k, awareness, community, fundraising, Inside Press, Mental Illness, support, theinsidepress.com

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