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Just Between Us

Into Africa and Turkey…my Journey Covering Secretary of State Hillary Clinton

April 12, 2015 by The Inside Press

Memories of a Historical Trip Brought Home to YOU–her Friends and Neighbors

Article and Photos by Grace Bennett

Dakur, Senegal. Juba, South Sudan. Kampala, Uganda. Nairobi, Kenya.  Lilongwe, Malawi. South Africa (Johannesburg,  Pretoria and Cape Town). Abuja, Nigeria. Accra, Ghana. Cotonou, Benin. Istanbul, Turkey…

nigeria-arrivalImagine, if you will, visiting 10 countries in 11 days, and following Secretary of State Hillary Clinton to meetings throughout regions of sub Saharan Africa “and beyond!” And imagine listening to the Secretary cite its lofty and wide ranging stated goals:  “to promote opportunity and development; spur economic trade and growth; advance peace and security; and strengthen democratic institutions.”

Consider underlying problems which hover–threatening to thwart such goals: whether deep and widespread corruption, election havoc, warring factions and regions, a raging HIV epidemic, and still, in so many places, extreme levels of poverty–all must be addressed too during the short time span that is a Secretary of State’s temporary “open window” into an entire continent.

“We are building relationships here in West Africa and across the continent that are not transactional or transitory. They are built to last. And they’re built on a foundation of shared democratic values and respect for the universal human rights of every man and woman.” Dakur, Senegal

And finally, imagine the responsibility of  responding to crises in other parts of the world at the same time, and having to, late into a journey, extend an already jam-packed trip by another day to continue diplomacy in yet another continent…this time, to Istanbul, Turkey, reeling from a sudden influx of refugees from now war torn Syria.  Once upon a time, I certainly couldn’t imagine any of that. Well, now…I can.  And here I hope to share at least some of the flavor of U.S. diplomacy abroad to you, as I promised Madame Secretary I would! Ready?

In each country, Special Air Mission (SAM) 757 would land.  Before heading to our “press van” in a long motorcade, several of us would wait for Secretary Clinton to “deplane” to photograph or film the reception (often quite festive) in each new country before she continued on with her diplomatic mission. She travels with her closest advisors in each country, this time, most notably Johnnie Carson, Assistant Secretary of State for the Bureau of African Affairs, and Robert Hormats, Under Secretary for Economic Growth, Energy and the Environment–and a special U.S. delegation attending the first U.S. Africa Business Summit held in Pretoria to address issues relevant to Africa, which Secretary Clinton referred to time and again as seven of the ten fastest growing economies in the world.

img_0168Ten journalists followed the former first Lady and two time U.S. Senator–our long time neighbor in Chappaqua–to witness her confer with and often downright dazzle yet another welcoming president, foreign minister, or chief justice. Or, we’d be there to watch her graciously sign a guest book at a health center (there were tours in three…meeting with doctors, nurses, local residents, patients and their children). Or, bolster workers in a dairy co-operative with new U.S. aid, offering a symbolic “bull”  to drive home a message of agricultural self sufficiency and productivity. Or, empower young girls at an all girls’ camp, where, after speaking, she determinedly made her way through aisles, shaking each young hand…leaving an imprint in a young girl’s heart forever.

“The eyes of the world will be on this election. I have absolute confidence that Kenya has a chance to be a model for all other nations, not just here in Africa, but around the world.” Nairobi, Kenya

Or, we’d listen to her commend Peace Corps. workers, U.S. military personnel, or the proud recipients of the U.S. State Department’s Human Rights Defender Awards. And always, in every country, she’d rally Embassy staffs during any one of the mission’s traditional “Embassy Meet and Greets.”

Making History
History making moments for the Secretary were plenty too, including a meeting with 94-year-old President Nelson Mandela and his wife Graca Machel in their home in Qunu. She praised his beautiful smile which Machel noted is his trademark! (The meeting with Mandela was limited to one “pool” writer–which meant, while I couldn’t attend, I was privy to the writer’s notes.) Clearly inspired by the visit, in Cape Town, she invoked Mandela’s profound influence over South Africa during a keynote speech at the University of Western Cape. She challenged the students in attendance at one point, saying:  “You, the young generation, are called on not just to preserve the legacy of liberty that has been left to you by Madiba and by other courageous men and women. You are called to build on that legacy, to ensure that your country fulfills its own promise and takes its place as a leader among nations and as a force for peace, opportunity, equality, and democracy, and to stand up always for human rights at home and around the world.”

Secretary Clinton also attended the State Funeral  and
services honoring Professor John Mills in Ghana after his sudden death two weeks post meeting with Pres. Obama. But it was her time in Malawi, as the first U.S. Secretary of State ever to step on its soil–to meet with its first woman President, Joyce Banda–and the colorful excursions from there, that she indicated was a definite highlight in this journey.

The diplomatic mission communicated the overall Africa agenda of President Obama. In a speech setting the tone in Dakur at the outset, she revoked his earlier words: “Africa doesn’t need strong men. It needs strong institutions.” In Johannesburg, she stated too: “We want partnerships in Africa that add value rather than extract it…(The region’s) emerging market present enormous opportunities not only for the people themselves who we hope will benefit because of inclusive, broad-based prosperity arising from growth, but also for American businesses who have a lot to offer.” Toward the end of the journey, she also emphasized the Obama Administration’s commitment to renewing the African Growth and Opportunity Act with South Africa before the act expires in 2015, and specifically a new provision especially beneficial for entrepreneurs and job creation.

“Successes” could be gauged too, as was the case early on in South Sudan where Secretary Clinton urged South Sudan leaders to open up oil reserves which had been shut down in South Sudan’s ongoing and brutal battles with North Sudan.  In a statement addressing the end of the impasse, she stated: “As I said in Juba yesterday, the interests of the people were at stake. The oil impasse has lasted more than six months…an agreement was hammered out…The future of South Sudan is now brighter.”

hillary-greeting-at-dance-night“What is she Like?”
People have been asking me: “What is she like?” and “What was it like to travel with her?”  I’ll try to answer that here! Even with ten days of relative proximity, I could never pretend to describe Hillary Clinton “up close and personal”  or based on one trip. However, I can tell you her manner toward the press is always cordial and good humored. In my first time and limited observations of her interactions with world leaders, I humbly offer that she appears to carry out her role effortlessly–with an easy smile and warm handshake for everyone–and the occasional hug too. With the general populace, I witnessed her border on playful sometimes, whether delighting in a dance troupe’s performance or song (sometimes asking for an encore. She really loves music!) or even boogying herself with respectable abandon (in my opinion) at a festive State dinner in Pretoria. Listen, no one can argue that this Secretary of State does not know how to have some fun too!

Most importantly, she projects a deep intelligence and command of the distinctly different and pressing issues facing each country, shifting easily to the issues at hand…a testament to her State Department staff as well, of course. But whether in a speech or in simple remarks along the way, her “smarts” is just never in question. From my chair, anyhow, she consequently seemed to command a reception that is both warm and extremely respectful.  One Ambassador commented to me that her “rock star” status abroad is simply unprecedented for a Secretary of State and that she is received more as a presidential figure.  She has a wry sense of humor I “caught” over and over.  At one point, with all the cameras snapping away, as usual, I overheard her say to a president, “You know, I never know what happens to most of these pictures they take!”  Well, with this issue of IC anyway, I hope she feels differently!

As a Journalist on this Trip
Each night, or every two nights, I crashed in another hotel bed (some very, very nice places too!) in another African city, checking my emails (the WiFi worked well almost everywhere) for word from home, to post on social media (I welcomed the support and palpable excitement about my being on this trip from family, friends and many of you!) and always, for new instructions from our main State Department liaisons, Caroline Adler and Nicholas Miller, and also from universally competent State Dept. personnel stationed in each country, on everything from “baggage drops” and breakfast times to  available “camera sprays.” For survival’s sake, I got used to the lingo…fast.

At a festive State dinner in Pretoria, Foreign Minister Mashabane magnanimously honored Sec. Clinton with an African name: Nomkita Noligwha, Zulu for: “She who shines light on all who follow.”

The press is privy to “embargoed” information (meaning you can’t report it till after the fact!) and, as press, were briefed periodically, with background info, a kind of “what to expect” from the deeply knowledgeable Johnnie Carson, who has held ambassadorships in Kenya, Uganda  and Zimbabwe. Carson would give us the lowdown each time pre-landing in anywhere from five to 25-minute briefings.

There was one casual outing with the Secretary for about 45 minutes of early evening drinks and snacks with our entire press group, in Cape Town, in the lounge of the beautiful Cape Grace Hotel. Joining her were the State Dept.’s Senior Advisor Philippe Reines and Spokesperson Victoria Nuland. Relaxed and friendly, Sec. Clinton made general off-the-record observations about many places we had visited and offered insights into the trip that still lay ahead to Istanbul.

“As the first country to voluntarily give up nuclear weapons, South Africa speaks with rare authority. You can most convincingly make the case that giving up nuclear weapons is a sign of strength, not weakness…this means South Africa can play an even greater role on issues like curbing Iran’s pursuit of nuclear weapons or preventing nuclear materials from falling into the hands of terrorists.” Cape Town, South Africa

Just Between Us Again
There was also a very special few moments for me as a journalist and woman business owner–for which I’m grateful to Secretary Clinton. It took place in Pretoria, following detailed joint remarks in tandem with Foreign Minister Nkoana-Mashabane, about the broadening of economic ties between our countries–including a $2 billion dollar agreement to provide credit guarantees to stimulate the growth of South Africa’s renewable energy sector.

As the two left their respective podiums, I began my usual picture taking with a little wave to the Secretary too. She then stunned me by motioning me to come join her and Minister Mashabane. “I’d like you to meet Grace Bennett. She is a successful woman entrepreneur from my town who started her own magazine,” said the Secretary.  A brief conversation ensued, interestingly, about the challenges facing print media. Then Minister Mashabane said to me: “We need more women like you in South Africa.”  I don’t know if that’s true, but I’d be glad to consult on launching a hometown publication anywhere in Africa after that!  I’d been granted a unique opportunity indeed.  And it was all stemming from an “on the fly” remark to Hillary Clinton when she was in town for Memorial Day that it would be an honor to fly with her–anytime, anywhere–and bring international images and stories home to her neighbors and friends.  With a glint in her eye, she told me she thought that was an interesting idea…

And now, here I am, weeks post trip, contemplating my trip…and Africa. Over the years, I have shed tears, along with you, as pictures have streamed in from there to here, whether it was wrenching shots of victims of  famines in Ethiopia  and Somalia or the survivors of genocide from Darfur and Rwanda.  One past Inside Chappaqua cover story reported on local volunteer efforts to “Save Darfur.” From a seemingly always very sad media barrage, a negative image of a poverty stricken and dangerous continent can naturally take hold.

But it’s a skewed image, and I know that now. I firmly believe Chappaqua’s first couple, the Clintons, along with President Obama, have done more than any other leaders in the history of the United States to “open up” Africa to the greater U.S. population and to provide decidedly different glimpses of regions from every corner of that great continent.  They have helped make Africa, in many ways, a compelling place to understand and hopefully to support and to visit.

From the window of a press van or from inside official state buildings, and a few precious assorted outings, I can’t claim to have “seen” Africa.  My own “mission” was rather simple: to be an observer of Secretary Clinton,  to the extent that I was welcome to, in action on one of her diplomatic missions.

Over 11 days, I focused heavily on picture taking while also scribbling notes. I “hung out” a lot, waiting in press “holding areas”–some of them quite beautiful with generous spreads of delicious local fare to munch on. It was also fun keeping company with seasoned foreign correspondents and photographers for major media outlets including AP’s Matthew Lee and Jacquelyn Martin, Reuters’ Andrew Quinn, Agency France Presse’ Nicolas Revise, the Washington Post’s Anne Gearan, Voice of America’s Anne Look, a three person Fox News team: Pat Summers, Wayne Lowman and Greg Khananayev, and Ayelet Waldman, an accomplished novelist on assignment for Marie Claire magazine.

Back Home
Of course, the globetrotting clock never stops for many of those folks, and nor for the State Dept. Just three days post my arrival, and seriously jet lagged, I received word of another late August 10-day trip throughout Asia, including Beijing, Jakarta, Laos and Mynamar. With seriously mixed feelings, I declined, so that I could  focus on the other demands of this edition and, every bit as important, meet back to school responsibilities, including driving my daughter back to college! Still, after a few more days, I experienced second thoughts and fired off a note stating that I thought I could make arrangements after all.  Too late!

But that’s ok. Clearly, a new kind of travel bug had got hold of me in Africa–and I’m watching international developments with a new eye and far greater interest and understanding. With the rest of the country, I was deeply distressed by the mayhem that had broken out in the Middle East, and thought about how the State department folks I had met were coping.  I asked if I could continue at least limited coverage while Secretary Clinton was in New York City. Permission granted!
She arrived here in late September to meet over the course of a week with leaders from every corner of the globe (including with groups of Central American and Arabic foreign ministers, Korean, Japanese and Haitian leaders, oppositional leaders from Syria,  and, toward week’s end, with  Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu), and to communicate and promote her own initiatives too.

At a “Feed the Future” presentation, moderated by Nick Kristof of the New York Times, it was heartwarming to witness a reunion with Malawi’s President Joyce Banda. Together, they  joined hands to address how to meet world wide “food security” challenges–… “increased investments in agriculture and nutrition are paying off in rising prosperity, healthier children, better markets, and stronger communities,” she said, announcing too a commitment by InterAction, an alliance of 198 U.S.-based organizations, to allocate $1 billion of private, nongovernmental funds toward food security efforts.

Sec. Clinton also partnered with world leaders to address gender equality during the launch of her “Equal Futures Partnership,” its mission, in a nutshell, “to expand economic opportunities for women and to increase women’s participation in politics and civil society.”  Addressing challenges and initiatives in their own countries were charter members from Jordan, Tunisia, Australia, Denmark, Peru, and more.  Jim Yong Kim, the new president of the World Bank, offered his commitment to track the Partnership’s progress, and Michelle Bachelet, director of UN Women, promised her support as well.

It was a privilege to have had a “full circle” opportunity to observe Secretary Clinton at work at home too.   Imagine that.

Grace Bennett is the Publisher and Editor of Inside Chappaqua.

Publisher’s Note: This story is dedicated to the memory of the four Americans killed in Libya: U.S. Ambassador J. Christopher Stevens, ex-Navy Seals Glen Doherty and Tyrone Woods, and to Sean Smith, a foreign service officer.  It also honors  all diplomats and Embassy staff who devote their skills and talents each day in their service abroad.

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Filed Under: Cover Stories, Just Between Us Tagged With: connection, Hillary Clinton, human rights, Inside Press, international, Secretary of State, theinsidepress.com

The Crash

January 8, 2015 by Inside Press

By Grace Bennett

4 a.m.

I was having a lovely dream when “The Crash” happened. It was loud and frightening. And close. Downstairs, close. I bolted from my bed to my son’s room. “Did you hear that?” “Yes,” he said, clearly shaken too. “That was really loud. Is someone downstairs mom?” “I don’t know,” I said.

“Maybe some dishes fell; I don’t hear any footsteps…” “Mom,” he said. “Someone could be standing silent.” Right. I quickly peeked down the stairway. A lone dish, whole and not broken, sat at the bottom of the staircase, teasing us, inviting contemplation. “Maybe the dining room cabinet collapsed somehow,” I said, but we could not make sense of the whole dish either. “Or, maybe someone screwed up,” I thought.

Too scared to investigate, I dialed 911, and was transferred to New Castle’s emergency line. I explained the situation and the officer was very nice. I described what we heard, and added: “I have a glass door to my patio: could a deer have crashed through?” He said: “I’ve seen that too.”

I pictured a frightened or injured buck downstairs now as a possibility too. He told me he would stay on the line. “Two cars are on their way.” “Thank you” I said, “and do tell anyone to knock loud so I know it’s them.”

For the next three minutes, I contemplated our vulnerability and told my son that vast odds are that it was nothing serious. He agreed. Still, we both eagerly waited for help. When I heard the knock, I fought back a lingering fear, and scurried down the stairs, and then and there, I quickly saw “the cause”…the dining room floor was littered with all my best china; a few pieces survived a collapse of a shelf, that had given way.

Sheepishly, I answered the door. “It’s just the china,” I said. The two officers were very kind; they came in and inspected the mess, and pointed out the missing jack where the shelf rested, and as I suspected initially, the shelf gave way, and all the china came tumbling down, creating The Crash.

I apologized profusely, but they were having none of it. “You were right to be concerned,” the male officer offered. “That must have been very loud.” Yes, it was. Some more discussion. “Maybe you used the set for a holiday gathering shifting the balance on there finally?” the woman officer asked. “No, I said, no holiday gatherings here. I almost never touch that china anyway”(thinking suddenly now of this metaphoric break and the final fate of the pretty gold rimmed dish set I got to keep). I apologized again; the woman officer offered: “That’s what we are here for.”

Filed Under: Just Between Us

Remembering “Dick” Crabtree…with Love

December 21, 2014 by Inside Press

By Grace Bennnett

In his final days, as John Crabtree related, Richard “Dick” Clarke Crabtree had offered his son some straightforward instruction on the writing of his eulogy. “He told me to skip the bad stuff and just tell everyone I loved them.” And that’s just what John did. Love was the theme, and yes, it was also very much in the air yesterday at St. Patrick’s Church in Bedford.

There, several generations of Crabtrees, extended family, and hundreds of friends and neighbors gathered to fondly remember the generous love and legacy of Dick Crabtree, the founder of Crabtree’s Kittle House. Recalled were his multiple roles as loving husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather, decorated military leader, restaurateur, benefactor to multiple public service organizations, and more. (See below for a full bio, as provided by the Crabtrees.)

The traditional service included readings by many Crabtree family members. It also led with Msgr. George Thompson’s observation at the outset that it’s not money or even fame that defines the success of a person’s life. It’s love. And that the overflowing room was ample proof of the great love Dick Crabtree shared in every arena of his life.

In a pre-eulogy, Bud Heithaus spoke of his undying admiration for his military colleague, old friend, and offered a salute: “A job well done, General.” In John’s eulogy (which his best friend read on his behalf), John immediately noted that a few pages could not possibly tell the story of such a larger than life man. But he was wrong. Anyone attending could not leave without a keen sense of the compassion, wit and full life Dick Crabtree led.

John encouraged everyone “to keep the Dick Crabtree stories and legends flowing long after the service.” And to that end, the Crabtrees graciously invited everyone in the packed sanctuary to a delicious luncheon at the Kittle House, following the service and burial in Valhalla. The luncheon itself was festive with many indeed exchanging stories. If Dick Crabtree were watching, he’d have agreed that it was all “good stuff.” crabtree table post funeral

A final note. Dick Crabtree’s daughter, Clare Crabtree, told me that what she remembers most about her dad was “just watching him be wonderful.” I’d like to think, at that moment, that Dick Crabtree might have been watching Clare and everyone he loved be wonderful too. Rest in peace.

A bio of Richard “Dick” Clarke Crabtree as told by the Crabtree Family:

The Passing of a True Legend

Richard (Dick) Clarke Crabtree died peacefully on December 12 at Calvary Hospital in the Bronx with his family by his side. Dick was born in New Rochelle NY and was raised there by his parents Joseph and Irene. He attended Iona Prep where he excelled in sports, especially track, setting multiple records including in the 440 yard and 220 yard dash which stood for many decades. He attended both Notre Dame and Georgetown Universities where he studied business, and in 1952 he married Marjorie (Mimi) Hannon, a model, his childhood sweetheart, and dedicated wife until his death.

Dick served in the U.S. Coast Guard from 1953 to 1954 before entering the family automobile business, Crabtree Motors, where he took charge of the used car division and introduced the concept of ‘certified pre-owned vehicles.’ Dick was hired by Ford Motor Company as Northeast Manager of Edsel Car Dealership Sales, and despite the short term success of the project, was proud that each of the dealerships that he established survived the Edsel debacle to become thriving businesses. Dick worked as a bank executive at both Citibank and Marine Midland Bank, but eventually realized his true calling was to utilize his prolific people skills in the restaurant business.

He opened his first restaurant, Crabtree’s Plaza Inn in Crestwood, NY in 1974 to great critical acclaim, and then in 1981 he purchased a popular landmark in Chappaqua NY, the Kittle House, and completely restored the building and the business as the preeminent Restaurant and Inn in Westchester County. Amongst his numerous community positions, Dick served as a Commissioner of the Westchester County Police Board, 1978-1986, as Chairman of the Business School Advisory Board at Westchester Community College, as Trustee of the New Castle Historical Society, as president of Chappaqua Rotary, as a Director of Westchester/Putnam Girl Scouts of America, as president of the Boys and Girls Club, Myrtle Beach, and as Prior to the Sovereign Military Order of the Knights Templar. Dick also served in the NY Guard from 1992 until he retired in 1999 as a Brigadier General.

In 1984 Dick received the Westchester County Distinguished Service Award. Dick will be greatly missed by the multitudes whose lives he touched. No matter how many hats he wore, and uniforms he donned, Dick never lost his energy for life and compassion for the people around him, and wherever he walked the world was at least a little bit brighter. He will be forever remembered as a man ‘larger than life’ with a charm, wit, humor, and compassion that were truly remarkable. He is predeceased by his brother Robert and sister Joan Mackin. He is survived by his wife Mimi, seven children, eighteen grandchildren, one great grandson, and many loving nieces and nephews.

The family will receive friends and family at Cassidy Flynn Funeral Home in Mt. Kisco NY Thursday 7-9 P.M., and Friday 2-4 P.M. and 7-9 P.M. A funeral service will take place at St. Patrick’s Church in Bedford on Saturday at 9:45 a.m.

In lieu of flowers please make donations to the Boys and Girls Club of Northern Westchester, the Salvation Army, and Graymoor Spiritual Life Center.

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Welcome to Chappaqua, Westchester

September 26, 2014 by Inside Press

On this beautiful and earliest of fall mornings…and one day before the second annual Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival, I’m feeling a sense of awe.  So I thought I’d share those simple but awfully handy W words  uppermost on my mind: Wow and Woo hoo to all that’s planned and the steadfast vision of Dawn Evans Greenberg and her team of talented Wizards and elves. Mother Nature is reportedly offering an enthusiastic nod of approval too– even reportedly granting us all a little Indian Summer to make the most of all the festivities, so we can leave fall jackets behind and pretend for a day that the spectacular summer of 2014 is simply continuing. Thanks, Mom!

There’s something for everyone tomorrow.  So whether you step out solo, with your significant other, or with your family, to enjoy the second annual Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival, the ongoing Chappaqua Farmer’s Market, the 5th annual Great Chappaqua Bake Sale committed to  ensuring that No Kids go Hungry, or shop some (or a lot) at a downtown Sidewalk Sale,  or are simply hoping for a first time (or 10th time) glimpse of “Where the Characters Are,”  Sophie Mendelson’s stunning mural on Greeley Ave, know this too:

We are not without our challenges, but the truth is we  live in a town with nationally ranked schools, gorgeous hills and parks, diverse homes,  and an array of downtown merchants who work so hard to enhance its storybook flavor as well.  And with exemplary neighbors too who just happen to be awfully adept at creating one best selling, fairy tale of a time. There’s a giant, floating message in the sky floating over Chappaqua tomorrow, and to all the residents who partake, and to all Westchesterites “and beyond” who plan to visit: Welcome and Enjoy.ccbf

Filed Under: Just Between Us Tagged With: Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival, Great Chappaqua Bake Sale, New Castle

Thank You to the Dads!

May 27, 2014 by The Inside Press

This whole issue has a little “history.” I met Ian Karr, our accomplished and talented Guest Editor, after innocently approaching him for a potential article about “Chappaqua Dads,” a Facebook page he started last year. Over breakfast at Le Jardin, I was surprised to hear he was also the co-host of a popular SiriusXM radio show, Jackie’s Joke Hunt. I had attended Jackie “The Jokeman” Martling’s performance one night at The Cutting Room in NYC (thanks to a local friend’s generous invitation!), and after a private introduction, Jackie invited me to be a guest on his show.

I never followed up, but Ian was about to change all that, and I have since appeared twice, and it’s quite fun! So it’s been truly gratifying to turn the tables a bit, and invite Ian and Jackie to work with me on my own littler and hyperlocal “show”–
Inside Chappaqua!

I was also intrigued when Ian told me he had some secrets to share about the so called “guy code.” I’m delighted by his article’s basic but on target insights and suggestions. I’ll take his messages to heart (next time I’m in a relationship, that is), and ladies, advise you do likewise!

me-with-the-guys-betterIndeed, I think I’ve gleaned plenty of new understanding about guys in general from the compilation of submissions here. I’ve always enjoyed any window into “guy thinking,” and here they are writing about coaching, barbequing, commuting, joke telling, camping with their buddies, or writing a big time Hollywood screenplay! So a big THANK YOU to the dads, and a Happy Father’s Day to Ian, Jackie, Joe, Stephen, Dan, Mark and Eric for going with the flow and injecting a much needed dose of male sensibility into a local magazine that’s generally written largely by women freelance writers. Special thanks as well to Todd Shapera for his cover and inside pictures of “the guys.” Ian had thought up the concept of getting all the dads on the cover in a “Vanity Fair” style shoot, and I’m thrilled with the results.

While dads were the primary focus, we did manage to include some “teen driven” pieces in time for graduation including ones about the “Teen Zone” at the Chappaqua Library, and another about an all day summit at Westchester Medical Center formed to help solve the issue of distracted driving, and not just among teens. Also, check out an article by Greeley’s Amanda Cronin about our high school’s stellar Science Department!

Contributing editors free me up to cover stuff too, on occasion, and I jumped at the chance to attend a talk by Shark Tank celeb and real estate mogul Barbara Corcoran.

My own life sometimes feels as if it’s “publish or perish.” If I ever perish, I would hope to reinvent myself with the same combination of true grit and humor Barbara conveys in every sentence she speaks.

Meanwhile, there’s been a steady flow of news in town ranging from Whole Foods signing a lease at Chappaqua Crossing, a proposal for a new and snazzy condo community at the Legionaries of Christ site, to most importantly, a solid citizen representation of New Castle residents weighing in with their visions for a Master Plan, as Eileen Gallagher reports here too. 
It’s not too late to get involved with that either!

Enjoy the month of June, everyone. It’s extra special for me with my two graduating seniors (Anna from UMass, Amherst and Ari from Greeley); immensely proud of them both, and wishing all New Castle (and beyond) families with graduating seniors a hearty congrats too.

P.S. There’s something for everyone during Chappaqua’s annual Sidewalk Sales Days. So mark your calendar! At press time, the Chappaqua-Millwood Chamber of Commerce told Inside Chappaqua this popular event will take place the weekend of July 24-26.

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