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Stacey Pfeffer

Dream Big, Play Hard: Aerin Frankel’s Olympic Journey

August 20, 2026 by Stacey Pfeffer

PHOTO COURTESY OF USA HOCKEY

Women’s ice hockey has been gaining in popularity ever since the Professional Women’s Hockey League (PWHL) was launched in 2023. Today, the PWHL consists of eight teams and this summer it will expand to twelve teams. With the US women’s ice hockey winning a gold medal at the Winter Olympics in Milan this year, it is an exciting time to be a female player on the ice. And one of the most lauded performances at the Olympics this past February belonged to Chappaqua’s own Aerin Frankel, the team’s goalie.

Frankel’s love affair with the ice first blossomed as a three-year-old when her parents, Peter and Deborah, took her to “public skate” sessions at the Westchester Skating Academy (WSA) in Elmsford. There was no equipment or organized hockey playing during these sessions. Her mother knew how to ice skate and came from a family of ardent NY Rangers fans. At first, her parents enrolled her in figure skating. But Frankel soon saw ice hockey games being played and wanted in on the action. She resisted the figure skating lessons and begged her parents to let her try ice hockey. They soon relented and at the age of six, Frankel started to play ice hockey for the WSA’s House League, a non-competitive entry to the sport. “The House League was kind of like an intro to hockey and I just loved it,” recalls Frankel. “I kept playing and then I played on multiple House League teams because I wanted to get better and spend more time at the rink.”

Soon Frankel was playing as the only girl on the Westchester Vipers, a travel team based out of WSA. “It was a lot of fun. I have so many memories of when I was little playing for the Westchester Vipers and making friends with all the boys on my team. They treated me just like I was one of them,” notes Frankel. To this day, Frankel still stays in touch with some of the Vipers and in fact is best friends with a former Viper, Anthony Stark who played Division 1 ice hockey for Colgate University. “He’s like a brother to me. I made so many friendships during my time with the Vipers.” She also credits coach Kevin Hagen from WSA who coached Frankel and Stark for almost a decade.

Frankel, who grew up in Hardscrabble Lake attended Roaring Brook Elementary and Bell Middle School as well as her freshman year at Horace Greeley High School. She always felt supported by her teachers. “I think all I wanted to do was to talk about hockey and to tell everyone that I was a hockey player, and that’s how I was known by most of my classmates.”

PHOTO COURTESY OF USA HOCKEY

Her involvement with the sport meant a lot of sacrifices. “I missed a lot of birthday parties on the weekends, school dances and socials but I knew I had to do that to pursue my dreams with hockey.” It also meant a huge time and financial commitment for her family, but they knew how serious she was about the sport. Eventually, WSA started a girls’ ice hockey team also named the Vipers and Frankel joined that too while still playing as the only girl on her original team of the Vipers.

Playing Goalie

Deciding to play goalie, arguably the most high-pressure position on the team, wasn’t taken lightly. But something that Frankel was passionate about trying. Her parents at first encouraged her to play out of the net in other positions and only let her become goalie after three years of playing.

“Even at a young age, I loved how goalies are always in the net. You’re not constantly on and off the ice, like the other players and I just love being the last line of defense. I think the position is like an expression of my personality. I’m kind of a free-spirit, wild, adventurous person, and the position resembles that.”

Frankel credits much of her success to her parents’ support. Another difficult decision her family had to face was leaving Greeley to attend boarding school where she could pursue ice hockey more rigorously. After freshman year, Frankel attended Shattuck-St. Mary’s prep school in Fairbault, Minnesota where she honed her skills. “This put me on the best path to play the most hockey at the highest level.” She then attended Northeastern University in Boston, where she became the most decorated NCAA ice hockey player in the school’s history while pursuing a combined major of Criminal Justice and Psychology with a minor in Spanish. In her fifth year of hockey eligibility at Northeastern, she earned a master’s degree in organizational leadership.

Frankel with her father, Peter
Frankel with her father, Peter
PHOTO BY CAROLYN SIMPSON

Today Frankel lives in Boston serving as goalie for the Boston Fleet, a PWHL team. This interview was conducted during a brief hiatus in her off-season. During the summer, she spent some time traveling with friends to Newport, the Bahamas and Florida. At the end of the summer, she is looking forward to speaking at the United States Tennis Association coaching symposium held during the US Open in New York.

Even though she will be off the ice for a few weeks, Frankel will still do interval training, yoga and biking to stay in shape. She also has a few nagging overuse injuries that she can devote more time to with physical therapy. Playing hockey non-stop during June 2025 leading up to the Olympics has been taxing. “You don’t really have time to rest during the season, because it’s just go, go, go. It’s my job to take good care of myself and train, even on the days where it’s harder or something’s bothering me. I obviously still have to show up to work which is just part of being in the professional league.”

When Frankel looks back on her journey to making the Winter Olympics, she notes that “It is an incredible honor. Making the national team in 2019 was such a surreal moment for me. To put on that USA hockey jersey and to be living out the dream I had.”

“If you had asked me 15 years ago, if I thought I would participate in the Olympics, let alone play for Team USA, I would have thought you were crazy. It has been a long time coming, but it’s just very rewarding given all the dedication to my sport and the commitment,” she continues.

PHOTO COURTESY OF USA HOCKEY

Going for the Gold

Frankel believes that winning the gold medal with her team was a dream come true for her. “Having my family there beside me to celebrate it was one of the most special things. They have sacrificed so much for me to be where I am today and having them there was a full circle moment. In a career, there are many ups and downs, and I feel lucky to have the best support system always by my side.”

“I definitely felt so much love and support from back home as well. Seeing the watch parties in Westchester and receiving so many messages from prior coaches made me feel like I had so many people behind me.”

“I remember the moment we won the game I was in a bit of disbelief about what had just happened. I never lost any doubt in my teammates, but the feeling of winning that gold medal and hearing our anthem play was truly unbelievable,” she says with a hint of awe still in her voice.

While fans get to watch the Olympics for three weeks, many don’t realize that athletes like Frankel have been as she says “scratching and clawing at this Olympics to crack the roster for four years.” In USA Hockey, every year you have a world championship with the same opponents like Canada, Finland, Sweden and Switzerland competing. This November, Frankel is hopeful that she will compete in the world championship in Denmark. The player pool is bigger at the beginning of those four years (known as a quad). There’s a lot of players who get cut from the Olympic team along the way.

PHOTO COURTESY OF USA HOCKEY

“The camaraderie as a team comes from all the time spent together during that quad leading up to the Olympics. You have four years of training camps, scrimmages, World Championships with a lot of ups and downs. You can’t play hockey all day every day, so you really get to know each other and spend time away from the ice.”

In addition to attending the Excellence in Sports Performance Yearly (ESPYs) awards presented by ESPN this July, Frankel also went to watch the PWHL draft in Detroit to cheer on her teammates who will get drafted from the national team into the PWHL. As the PWHL expands, each team can only protect three players from being taken during expansion. Frankel’s status as a protected player means that she will remain playing for the Boston Fleet. “It’s where I love to play, and I have a lot of teammates here that I really enjoy playing with.”

Knowing that she is on the world stage, Frankel is acutely aware of what a privilege it is and how younger fans look up to her. “I’ve seen just how much an impact you can have on people, and it is really special. It’s something I don’t take lightly at all. I represent my hometown, my country, my team. It makes such a difference in people’s lives when you have meaningful interactions with them. A lot of people in our league are always eager to interact with fans and give back to our communities to help grow women’s hockey. It has grown tremendously over the past few years, but it’s still growing at this point.”

Besides spending hours on the ice, Frankel is a self-confessed foodie, and Caesar salad is her favorite food. She even has an Instagram account rating different ones which started as a passion project in 2024. The account dubbed PainbyRomaine started out small with just a few thousand followers but during the Olympics it gained traction and today she has over 70,000 followers. “I get sent a lot of croutons and salad dressing,” she quips.

PHOTO COURTESY OF USA HOCKEY

But there are two local food items named in her honor that she can’t wait to try on her next visit to Westchester. The Hometown Hero consisting of romaine, hot honey, Buffalo chicken cutlet, crouton crumbles and Caesar salad dressing wrapped in a parmesan blanket is available at Bobo’s Cafe in Chappaqua and Rocky’s Deli in Millwood added a chicken Caesar wrap with bacon and croutons to celebrate her success. We are hoping they remain as menu items as she clenches another gold medal for Team USA at the 2030 Winter Olympics in the French Alps.

Filed Under: Cover Stories Tagged With: Aerin Frankel, Chappaqua, hockey, olympics

Wings Team Unites to Commemorate Player’s Daughter with a Special Uniform Patch

August 20, 2026 by Stacey Pfeffer

The Wings
The Wings

If you’ve ever played on a team before, you know that friendships often form on the baseball diamond, the soccer field or the tennis court. At first that friendship may form due to a shared passion for the sport but as time evolves, those friendships can deepen and create lasting almost family-like bonds. Such is the case with local men’s recreational softball team, the Wings. Several players have played together for twenty to thirty years or more.

Team manager, captain and coach Andy Benjamin was one of those long-term players and affectionately dubs himself the “great-grandfather” of the Wings as there are now several father-son duos playing on the team. Benjamin first started the team when they were known as the Misfits, then the Buffalo Wings and finally its current incarnation as the Wings. “We decided to name ourselves the Wings and drop the Buffalo because we are more than just an appetizer. You’ll still see our team logo has a buffalo with wings holding a bat,” he says with a laugh. Benjamin was the first to have his son Matt play alongside him on the Wings. Throughout the team’s history, there have been six father-son duos on the team. Many of those sons have joined after playing on the Horace Greeley baseball team and some have continued playing throughout college and even post college graduation. Currently, there are three father-son duos on the team roster. “We have a cornucopia of age with fathers, sons and even grandfathers playing,” notes Adam Kupperman, who first joined the team in 2008 and now plays alongside his son, Jared who graduated Horace Greeley this June and played for the baseball team.

Clearly there is something special about this team that makes the younger generation want to join the team and Benjamin credits that to the team’s chemistry and camaraderie. “It’s such a brotherhood, I can’t stress that enough.” Benjamin, who suffered a stroke a few years ago and no longer actively plays on the field says the team came to his aid when he was sick with hospital visits and emotional support. “When Andy got sick, we were all there for him. The team has the vibe of a family culture and that strong level of connection,” comments Kupperman.

Kupperman witnessed that unique bond first-hand when his daughter Kylie became sick again with medulloblastoma, a type of brain cancer. Kylie was first diagnosed with the disease as a four-year-old and had many grueling treatments throughout her life. The Horace Greeley graduate, was able to complete her freshman year at the University of Delaware when her tumor grew back. She passed away September 10, 2025 at the age of 19. The team was always there for the family from meal drops to helping out with anything. Kylie was an avid fan of the Wings and watched many games that her father played in. “Baseball is our first religion followed by Judaism,” jokes Kupperman, whose family has always been passionate about the sport.

Team member Jon Brolin first met Adam when they attended the University of Pennsylvania and were part of the same fraternity. Coincidentally, they both moved to Chappaqua and were placed on the same softball team. As a way to honor Kylie’s memory, Brolin created a pink baseball patch which now adorns the Wings uniforms emblazoned with “K13” on it. Pink was Kylie’s favorite color and “K” which is the eleventh letter of the alphabet signifies Kylie’s birthdate of November 13th. The number 13 holds special significance in the Kupperman family as Adam was born on March 13th. Kylie was also an ardent Taylor Swift fan and as any “Swifty” knows “13” is Taylor’s lucky number. Kupperman’s number on his uniform has always been 13.

Brolin explains that it is common practice in sports to wear a patch to honor someone important to the team who passed away for a season. “When I met up with Adam at Quaker Hill Tavern, (a favorite Wings hangout) to show him the patch, he got very emotional,” recalls Brolin. Echoing that sentiment, Kupperman says he got teary eyed. “It was heavy and an amazing gesture. It was incredibly thoughtful to create something in her honor and that he got the greenlight from the entire team. I got really choked up about the fact that it was the entire Wings team who stepped up because we are a family.”

Brolin says that the patch will be on their unforms in perpetuity, not just for one season. “When a new member joins the Wings, they will learn who Kylie was. In this way, she will always be part of our team.”

Filed Under: Features Tagged With: Andy Benjamin, Chappaqua, Softball, Wings

The Ups & Downs of being an “Empty Nester”

April 29, 2026 by Stacey Pfeffer

Every time I enter my driveway, I pause at the lawn sign at my mailbox that reads “Proud Home of a Greeley Senior”. In truth, it makes me wistful and a little uneasy. My oldest child will be graduating this June and attending college. While I still have two younger children at home, I am acutely aware that he won’t be around this fall. And although I am very excited for what the college experience will be like for him, I am also nervous about many things.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the “empty nest” phase and while I have about five more years before entering it, I’m already trying to prepare. I’ve recently taken up tennis as a hobby as it will be a good social and healthy outlet and am hoping to do some amateur theater once my “Uber” driving days for afterschool activities are over. I, like many parents, realize that a lot of my identity currently is tied up with my children.

The concept of “empty nest” and what it means for the individual and the family differs for everybody. I interviewed two local recent “empty nesters” and one “empty nester-to-be” to see what’s in store for me in the coming years.


Tema Bomback, Chappaqua

The Bomback Family

Mount Kisco resident Tema Bomback has had her four children, Miles, Caroline, Annie and Phoebe go through the Chappaqua school system for the past 20 years. With her youngest daughter, Phoebe poised to graduate from Horace Greeley High School this spring, she has been very involved within the school district for a more than two-decade span. Currently serving two years at the high school as chair and vice chair of the PTA and a recent honoree at this year’s Horace Greeley Scholarship Fund dinner, Bomback knows the ins and the outs of the school district.

She has chaired many events and committees throughout the years but was reluctant to take a leadership role until Phoebe was the only one at home. In addition to being involved within the school system, Bomback is a volunteer at the JCCA’s Cottage School in Pleasantville and the New Castle Arts Committee.

Prior to having children, Bomback worked in film marketing and publicity but does not plan on returning to that field. “I’ve been out of the workforce for the past 20 years. The volunteer positions have taught me my strengths and also helped me figure out the next chapter a bit,” she says. She hopes to do something to combat food insecurity and plans to volunteer for Feeding Westchester or The Pantry in Mount Kisco.

“This next chapter is bittersweet. I have loved parenting and having us all under one roof and the loud chaos and it’s sad to see this chapter come to an end. Transitions are hard and admitting this phase is over brings your own aging into focus,” explains Bomback.

Once her daughter Annie left for Northwestern University, Bomback had a lot of driving duties until Phoebe got her license. Bomback’s whole life has been structured around school schedules. “Figuring out a new schedule will be interesting. With Phoebe alone at home, I always want to be here for her in the morning and have coffee with her.” Bomback knows that this time together is precious and fleeting.

If Bomback had to choose one area of her house that epitomizes the various phases of parenthood, it would be the basement. When they bought the house, it was unfinished so they decided to finish it and make a playroom where the kids could make a mess and they wouldn’t worry. It then served as a backdrop for birthday parties and many sleepovers. Now it is used infrequently and mostly by her younger nieces and nephews.

Having lived in the community for many years, Bomback has many friends who are already empty nesters. She knows that next year she’ll have the freedom and flexibility for more hobbies like a weekly canasta night. “In the past, I have done that during the day and haven’t said yes to a weekly game night because of the kids.” She envisions taking care of items on the bottom of her to do list like photo albums and cleaning out closets.

For now, Bomback is going to take up to a year to figure out her next chapter once Phoebe goes to college, at Northwestern University this fall. For now, she plans on visiting Miles and Caroline, who works as a development coordinator at Haymarket East Content, once a week in the city for dinner along with her husband Mark who works from home as a screenwriter. And she is looking forward to a temporary nester coming back home this fall. Her son Miles will be doing a rotation in Stamford while at Columbia University Medical School and will live with them during that stint. “That really is a gift. But as a parent, you hope they [all the kids] are prepared to fly the nest,” she says.


Melissa Jacobs, Armonk

The Jacobs Family

Melissa Jacobs describes herself as a “nurturer”. A mom to three boys, her youngest son, Owen is a freshman at the University of Texas at Austin. She is a special education teacher working with local preschoolers on an individualized basis. She is also a trustee on the Board of Education for the Byram Hills School District.

It didn’t dawn on her immediately that she was an empty nester when her youngest went to college. “The fall semester is full of parents weekend activities, fall break, Thanksgiving break and then a long winter break,” notes Jacobs. “My moment of the enormity of being an empty nester hit me later. When our beloved family pet Oakley, a cockapoo, was sick and made it to Thanksgiving and the whole family was at my house. He gave us 13 years and it was a special goodbye and that hit me so hard. We not only lost our pet but then my nest was truly empty,” she recalls.

For Jacobs, the afternoon hours which were now a void was the hardest part about becoming an empty nester. “At 3 p.m., I’d be home to give Oakley his medicine and then I’d catch up with Owen about his day which was our real connecting time,” says Jacobs.

But even so Jacobs was preparing for the empty nest life years prior to it actually happening. In 2019 and during COVID, she obtained graduate certification online to become a Special Education Itinerant Teacher (SEIT). She says she enjoys being beholden to the school schedule and waking up each day to work in local preschools. Between her job and her board position, Jacobs has made it a point to stay busy and connected to the community.

She has enjoyed some of the perks and freedom of being an empty nester too. Last summer her husband had a business trip to London and she tagged along and then they got to spend two weeks in the French countryside to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary. “We wouldn’t have done it, if we had our kids at home,” she notes.

Jacobs describes the first year of bring an empty nester as bittersweet and an avalanche of emotions. She advises those who are soon to be empty nesters to embrace this period and be prepared for that whole range of emotions. She has several friends too who have recently become empty nesters and they prefer to reframe the experience more positively, describing themselves as “free birding”.

“I get satisfaction and happiness knowing that my kids are where they want to be. That is my purpose and the cycle of life,” she sums up.


Lynda Lederer-Natale, Pleasantville

The Lederer-Natale Family

A dental hygienist by trade, Lederer-Natale is very involved in many town activities. She sits on the board of the Chamber of Commerce and co-officiates the Dad’s Club of Pleasantville. Her only child, Nick entered Syracuse University as a freshman this fall.

When Lederer-Natale was initially thinking about her life as an empty nester, she thought that she would be a wreck but fortunately that hasn’t happened. Instead, she has been pleasantly surprised. “It wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be because hearing his voice and knowing that he’s OK made me feel like I can do this,” says Lederer-Natale.

Although she has always worked fulltime, she never missed Nick’s baseball or football games. “I only get one shot at it, so it was important to be there. Nick always comes first.”

But now that Nick’s at college, Lederer-Natale has embraced the free time by taking two girls trips this fall and traveling more with my husband. “I took a four-day trip to London during high school football season. I never would have done that when Nick was around,” she explains.

Still there are moments of sadness and loneliness for her. She recalls crying after she saw a post from Break the Hold, a mental health organization dedicated to suicide awareness and prevention, which had a photo of Nick who was a speaker and scholarship recipient for the group. “I cried for my friend, Jolina who had lost her son and thought to myself their kid went off to college and never came home. As a mom, you worry about all sorts of things at college–drinking, your child’s mental health,” comments Lederer-Natale.

Not only did her and her husband have to adjust to becoming empty nesters, their dog Trooper cries outside Nick’s bedroom door sometimes and when Nick has had a school break, their reunions have been joyous.

Life changes once you are an empty nester in so many ways. “I’m not rushing to leave work early for football or baseball games. I have less laundry and less cooking. I’m not tripping over shoes in the mud room and there are no more empty water bottles or food packages lying on my kitchen counter.”

This past year, Lederer-Natale believes her son has matured. He now does his own laundry and she feels he understands the value of a dollar a bit more. He also really appreciates his time now when he comes home and doesn’t rush out to be with friends.

She feels that Nick has always been a good communicator and regularly texts with him when he is at school. “He’ll call while he’s walking across campus and the “I love you mom” texts are flying around a bit more,” she adds.

“At the end of the day as sad as I am that he isn’t waking up in my house everyday anymore, he’s happy and found his group of friends and I think as parents that is what we all want,” she explains.

She advises soon-to-be empty nesters to cherish these last few months, take plenty of photos and be honest and open about expectations. “Let them know that you are there for them no matter what even if they need to call you at 3 a.m.”

Filed Under: Features Tagged With: community involvement, Empty Nesters, find your path, ways to stay connected

Chappaqua Dad: Ultra-endurance Athlete Eric Gelber Prepares for Local Fundraising Event

April 29, 2026 by Stacey Pfeffer

PHOTO COURTESY OF GELBER

When Anita Sorrel, a close family friend was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer more than 20 years ago, Chappaqua resident Eric Gelber sprang into action. The former two pack a day smoker decided to challenge himself, quit smoking and train for the New York City marathon in 2006 while raising money for the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation (MMRF) to help fundraise to find a cure for Sorrel’s cancer, which develops in the plasma cells of bone marrow.

Gelber’s family first met Sorrel when he was a teen at a Club Med vacation. “She always stood behind me and encouraged me. I did that first marathon to support her and let her know that I was thinking of her.” Unfortunately, Sorrel passed away from multiple myeloma in 2012. Since then, the MMRF has been instrumental in helping patient survival rates from multiple myeloma increase from 3 years to 10.

He didn’t know it at the time, but that initial NYC marathon would grow into a 20 -year fundraising commitment dubbed “The Journey for a Cure” with unique athletic feats pursued by Gelber. Gelber’s journey started with just $5,000 raised from that first marathon but in subsequent years, his fundraising efforts have totaled more than 2.6 million dollars for the MMRF. Throughout the years, he has participated in many ultra-endurance events such as a 135-mile run called Badwater in Death Valley, California, the Lake Placid Ironman and ran 200 miles in Central Park in a weekend, an effort that was turned into a documentary titled “200 Miles” that was shown at the Tribeca Film Festival in 2017.

This fall, the Chappaqua Metro North station will be the latest venue for an endurance event and fundraising effort as Gelber attempts to row 100 miles and do 10,000 pushups in 36 hours on September 26th and 27th. The attempt will kick off on the same day as the Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival and Gelber is hoping that the increased visibility of his endeavor will help raise awareness of multiple myeloma and encourage spectators to donate to MMRF. “The Town had a great response when I presented the idea to them and was appreciative of us doing a journey event here,” said Gelber. In addition, to his own stationary Erg rower, there will be two additional ones for the public to ride along with Gelber to show their support.

Gelber, an Executive Vice President at real estate company CBRE along with his wife, Tani have conceptualized new ways to hold fundraising events for MMRF throughout the years. They’ve held 12-hour relays and a music festival with a beer garden at Randall’s Island and even did it remotely during COVID. In recent years, they’ve held tennis and pickleball tournaments at Sea Colony in Bethany Beach, where the family vacations.

The Gelber Family
PHOTO BY KIMBERLY CORSO

Growing up Gelber played softball and did adventure races but he jokes that he “was not the epitome of health.” As training ramps up for his latest Journey event, Gelber is strategizing the best way to conduct the attempt. In 2021, he rowed 200 miles in Central Park which resulted in “a lot of butt pain”, he recalls with a laugh. Currently to avoid that, he is thinking of rowing a mile and then doing 100 push-ups (breaking it into sets of 20 every minute) and repeating it 100 times but is still tinkering with the best method.

Gelber, who turns 59 this spring , switched from running ultramarathons to rowing in recent years as it is less taxing on the body. Both activities require extreme discipline and endurance. When training ramps up for him this summer, he anticipates getting up at 4 am and then working out for 2-3 hours before work. He’s no stranger though to early mornings as he would sometimes get up at 3 am and then do 6 hour runs on the weekends when he was doing ultramarathons so that he could have breakfast with his three children, Jared, Kyle and Isla.

Just as his Central Park 200-mile event years ago had other supporters running alongside him for segments, he hopes the Chappaqua event inspires people to think outside the box, learn more about MMRF and donate to the cause. Support Chappaqua resident Eric Gelber as he pushes past limits to help the MMRF accelerate a cure. To donate and/or sign up for push-up and rowing slots go to themmrf.org/journey20.

Gelber admits that this event may be the last ultra-endurance one for him. But the cause is still near and dear to his family’s heart as his son Kyle will run the New York City marathon this fall for MMRF.

Filed Under: Features Tagged With: Eric Gelber, fundraiser, MMRF

Physical Therapy for Women at Various Life Stages

February 26, 2026 by Stacey Pfeffer


Women go through so many changes throughout their life cycle. From pregnancy for those who choose to conceive to the post-partum phase, hormones can increase a woman’s likelihood of certain injuries. The fluctuating hormones in perimenopause and then a sharp decline of estrogen in menopause can cause a variety of musculoskeletal issues as well. Inside Press spoke with Chappaqua resident Dr. Corrinne Menn, an OBGYN and menopause specialist to gain a better understanding of how hormones and other factors at different stages of a woman’s life can make her more prone to injury. We also spoke with two local physical therapists who have decades of treating women of all ages for these various injuries, Armonk’s Michele Berliner at Focal Physical Therapy in Armonk and Pleasantville’s Caron DuBois at New Castle Physical Therapy in Millwood.

Pregnancy

The pregnancy hormone relaxin surges during pregnancy in order to prepare the body for delivery. This important hormone helps loosen muscles, joints and ligaments to help the body stretch and prepares the pelvis for delivery. Unfortunately, it can also make pregnant women more prone to injury as their ligaments loosen. With added weight gain causing a women’s center of gravity to shift, it is not surprising that many women experience muscle aches and pains during their pregnancy. According to the American Pregnancy Association, the number of pregnant women who experience back pain is somewhere between 50 to 70 percent.

Dr. Menn says back pain is one of the top reasons she has referred pregnant women to physical therapy (PT). Both Berliner and DuBois agree that back pain is one of the most common ailments they treat in pregnant women, particularly in the third trimester. But other women seek out physical therapy due to pelvic girdle pain (PGP) and even pain in the rib cage. PGP can cause pain in the hips, buttocks, thighs and the sacrum and it is estimated to affect up to 70 percent of pregnant women in the US. PGP can also persist in the post-partum phase with nearly 40 percent of women reporting ongoing PGP and pelvic weakness 12 weeks after delivery.

Besides addressing pain, Berliner works a lot on core strength and helping women recruit their abdominal muscles properly so that they can recover quickly in the post-partum phase. From lifting a heavy car seat to placing a baby in a crib, using core muscles effectively is key to injury prevention.

Just as many expectant moms take classes about newborn care, DuBois wishes that all pregnant women could have at least one physical therapy session prior to delivery. PT could teach them proper lifting mechanics and how to strengthen their pelvic floor to aid in delivery.

Post-Partum

Dr. Menn believes that historically there has been an undereducation in the wider medical community of how physically traumatic the delivery process can be for some women. The tide is slowly turning with medical groups such as the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) highlighting data on episiotomies, vaginal tears, perineum and nerve pain following delivery. Women can even break their coccyx bone or hip during childbirth.

Diastasis recti is the separation of the abdominal muscles during pregnancy and is more common in women who deliver via caesarean. The condition not only affects body posture but also leads to core dysfunction which can cause low back pain, urinary incontinence and a reduced quality of life. “Before a woman resorts to surgery for it, physical therapy can help narrow the separation and fix many of the problems associated with it,” explains Berliner.

“When you give birth, your life changes dramatically and your body is challenged in different ways,” adds Berliner. Movements such as holding the baby, feeding or nursing it, placing them in a car seat or crib are repeated throughout the day. “PT can help with postural awareness to help address any weaknesses and prevent injury,” adds Berliner. Relaxin, which loosens the ligaments still remains in the body post-partum. Some sources say it can take up to a year for relaxin levels to return to pre-pregnancy levels. The ligaments and joints can still be loose in this phase, so an exercise program needs to be done cautiously. “Women need guidance in the post-partum period to educate them on the best body mechanics for doing these activities, so they don’t hurt themselves,” explains DuBois.

Many times, when a woman visits her ob-gyn for a six-week post-partum check-up, pain is attributed to the weight gain of pregnancy or a difficult delivery. “If you are having pain anywhere in your body that is lasting more than two weeks and affecting your daily life, you have to be the squeaky wheel with your doctor. Find a physician who acknowledges the problem and ask for a referral to a pelvic floor therapist or an orthopedist with expertise in pregnancy-related issues,” urges Dr. Menn.

Perimenopause

In 2024, Dr. Vonda Wright an orthopedist in Florida along with other researchers published a seminal study in the journal Climacteric titled the “Musculoskeletal Syndrome of Menopause”. While many women are familiar with the decline in bone health at this stage, the musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause (MSM) also includes joint and muscle pain. “The loss of estrogen affects every system in the body,” notes Dr. Menn. Doctors are becoming more aware of MSM as the study was widely covered in the media.

Perimenopause is a period in woman’s life when her estrogen levels are constantly fluctuating. “From a physiologic standpoint, perimenopause symptoms can start 10 years prior to a woman’s last period. For example, if the normal range of menopause is 46-56, let’s say someone transitions into menopause at 49, that woman can start having symptoms of perimenopause starting at 39 with abrupt fluctuations and unpredictable estrogen levels,” explains Dr. Menn. The most rapid bone loss begins during the late perimenopause, approximately 1-2 years before the final menstrual period (FMP), and continues through the first few years of postmenopause. During this critical window, bone mineral density can decline by 2.5% per year or more.

Dr. Wright’s study found that more than 70% of women will experience musculoskeletal symptoms and 25% of women will be disabled by a musculoskeletal issue through the transition from perimenopause to postmenopause. This often-unrecognized collective of musculoskeletal symptoms, largely influenced by estrogen fluctuations, includes joint pain, loss of muscle mass, loss of bone density and progression of osteoarthritis.

With approximately 40–50% of women at age 50 having osteopenia, which is a precursor to osteoporosis, and approximately 20% of women over 50 years of age having osteoporosis, baseline bone density tests are critical. Bone density scans are usually recommended at age 65 for women. Dr. Menn, a breast cancer survivor, would argue that there are a lot of risk factors that women need to know about that would make them an ideal candidate to have a baseline DEXA bone density scan done earlier, starting at age 50. These include but are not limited to women who had chemotherapy, having a parent who had an osteoporotic fracture, smoking, ongoing steroid or SSRI use, having celiac disease or autoimmune diseases or an eating disorder at some period in their lives. “If insurance denies it, the cash price is about $100 and it is worth it,” she advises.

Berliner sees many patients in perimenopause. A common refrain she hears from them is “I’m now in my 50s. I never had so much pain and used to bounce back quicker.” One of the most difficult conditions both Berliner and DuBois treat in this population is frozen shoulder which is significantly more common in women during perimenopause and menopause (ages 40-60) due to hormonal shifts, particularly the drop in estrogen, which affects joint lubrication, inflammation, and connective tissue elasticity, making the shoulder capsule prone to stiffness and thickening. “It is such a painful and frustrating condition, and it takes a lot of diligence in treating with stretching and home exercises. It can take 6-12 months to heal. If you are having shoulder pain, the sooner you start working on it with PT the better. The same is true for nagging back pain during pregnancy. Don’t delay treatment,” says Berliner.

Menopause

According to the International Osteoporosis Foundation, approximately 30% of women age 65 or older will have osteoporosis. “We have clear data that 1 in 2 women with osteoporosis will have a fracture in their lifetime. If they have a hip fracture, close to 30% of those patients die within a year and a vast majority of them will never return to the independent functioning they had prior to that hip fracture,” says Dr. Menn.

So many women think that if they eat enough vitamin D or take calcium supplements, they think that they won’t have bone loss but that’s simply not true points out Dr. Menn. “You can’t ignore the elephant in the room. Once you stop producing estrogen, you will have bone loss and need to take an all-hands-on deck approach with hormone replacement therapy (HRT) for those who are a good candidate for it plus weight bearing exercises and resistance training.

Dr. Menn is a proponent of HRT. “The FDA has approved estrogen for more than two decades for the prevention of bone loss and osteoporosis. One of the primary indications of HRT is for the prevention of bone loss. The FDA sets a very high standard to get a drug approved for the prevention of a disease. Even if a woman isn’t experiencing symptoms like hot flashes or night sweats, I still recommend it.”

“A lot of women assume they aren’t good candidates for hormone therapy but if a doctor says that, ask them, “why am I not a good candidate?” so they don’t lose out on the benefits of HRT for osteoporosis prevention,” she adds. Dr. Menn suggests seeing a specialist if you choose not to take HRT or are not a good candidate for it, as there are non-hormonal options for osteoporosis available.

Physical therapists can develop a supervised and safe strength training program for menopausal women. “Physical therapy used to be viewed as a tool for those suffering from an injury or people in the pre-or post-surgery phase but with people living longer, they are now using it on a semi-regular basis and for injury prevention,” notes Berliner.

DuBois agrees and also noted that she has many elderly female patients who stopped exercising during COVID. They were afraid to go to the gym, and they need to work on strength training with guidance. Those who are frail especially need a supervised tailored approach to an exercise program.

Many studies show that weight bearing exercises such as vigorous walking can improve osteopenia and osteoporosis. “Other exercises such as glute bridges, planks, squats and lunges are extraordinarily beneficial,” says Berliner. In addition to strength training, physical therapists work a lot on balance exercises for fall prevention with many of their elderly clients.

Part of the therapist’s job is to build a home exercise program that is realistic for each individual and addresses the client’s needs. “If a client says she only has 10 minutes to exercise at home, then I will build a short program tailored to her needs within that time frame,” says Berliner. She also suggests “exercise snacks” for time pressed individuals who may have trouble carving out 30 minutes of consecutive exercise, they can break up sessions into 10 or 15 minute chunks a few times a day.

“Although a diagnosis of osteopenia and osteoporosis can be alarming, we do have good solutions to address this,” says Dr. Menn. Acknowledging that other therapies such as acupuncture and functional medicine can help women at this stage or at other periods throughout their life, Berliner wants women to view PT as a way to meet their goals. “Whether you hope to get stronger, more flexible or have less pain, I am here to listen to you and I view myself as a tool to build you a program to help you achieve that. You are not alone –
let me help you to feel better,” sums up Berliner.

Filed Under: Features Tagged With: Menopause PT, perimenopause pt, Post-partum pt, PT during pregnancy

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